Modern medical technology has changed not only the way we live but also the way we die. Until two generations ago, people usually died suddenly, after an accident or serious illness. Now, most of us will live with chronic conditions, and our dying will usually take longer, require more care, and demand more planning than ever before. Handbook for Mortals is warmly addressed to all those who wish to approach the final years of life with greater awareness of what to expect and greater confidence about how to make the end of their lives a time of growth, comfort, and meaningful reflection. Written by Dr. Joanne Lynn and a team of experts, it provides equal measures of practical information and wise counsel. Readers will learn what decisions they will need to face, what choices are available to them, where to look for help, how to ease pain and other symptoms, what to expect with specific diseases, how the health care system operates, and how the entire experience affects dying persons, their families, and their friends. Such practical information is indispensable.
But equally important are the personal stories included here of how people have come to terms with serious illness and dying, how they have faced their fears and made their choices. These give us moving firsthand insights into a profoundly important process, one that is often kept hidden in our culture. From down-to-earth advice on how to talk to your doctor to inspiring quotes from such writers as Emily Dickinson, W. H. Auden, Jane Kenyon, and others, Handbook for Mortals addresses the needs of both the body and the spirit in our final years.
CHAPTER 1: LIVING WITH SERIOUS ILLNESS; CHAPTER 2: ENDURING AND CHANGING; CHAPTER 3: FINDING MEANING; CHAPTER 4: HELPING FAMILIES MAKE DECISIONS AND GIVE CARE; CHAPTER 5: GETTING THE HELP YOU NEED; CHAPTER 6: TALKING WITH YOUR DOCTOR; CHAPTER 7: CONTROLLING PAIN; CHAPTER 8: MANAGING OTHER SYMPTOMS; CHAPTER 9: LIVING WITH SPECIFIC ILLNESSES; CHAPTER 10: PLANNING AHEAD; CHAPTER 11: DECIDING ABOUT MEDICAL INTERVENTIONS; CHAPTER 12: HASTENING DEATH; CHAPTER 13: COPING WITH EVENTS NEAR DEATH; CHAPTER 14: THE DYING OF CHILDREN; CHAPTER 15: DYING SUDDENLY; CHAPTER 16: ENDURING LOSS; CHAPTER 17: RESOURCES